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similar ideas—that they are the good guys, definitely not criminals or rapists. Increasing
numbers of men may make similar claims as the popularity of the #MeToo movement
continues to empower victims/survivors
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to speak about their experiences and identify
perpetrators. This has simultaneously prompted a backlash among the accused men, with
denials of culpability and claims of wrongful accusations. In this way, the narrative of a
wrongfully accused man emerges, developing into repeated claims that he is a good guy,
whose reputation could be ruined by the allegations.
Especially for those accused of sexual assault who hold a privileged status (White,
middle- to upper-class, cisgender, heterosexual), men encounter a disproportionate amount
of sympathy, or himpathy, compared to victims/survivors. As introduced by Manne (2018,
2020), himpathy occurs when privileged men accused of sexual assault or harassment
receive extra attention and sympathy. This excess of sympathy toward male perpetrators
serves as a reminder that sexual assault is a unique crime that frequently exonerates (male)
perpetrators and subsequently or simultaneously blames the victims/survivors for any harm
that occurs. In this paper, we review existing empirical work that provides support for
himpathy (Manne 2018, 2020). Although there are vast literatures on blame-shifting and
rape myths, which implicitly support the theoretical validity of himpathy, these literatures
have not been aggregated to discuss how they underlie himpathy.
Scholars are starting to explicitly acknowledge himpathy’s existence (c.f., Banet-
Weiser 2021; Barber, Bridges, and Nelson 2019; Boyle 2019; Sweeny 2020), incorporating
it into empirical work (c.f., Andreasen 2021; Bedera 2023; Boyle and Rathnayake 2020;
Dodson et al. 2023; Miller 2019; Miller et al. 2022; Pals 2021). Thus, although there is
only emerging research specifically utilizing himpathy, there is a vast literature within
psychology and sociology that supports the tenets of himpathy. In this paper, we focus
specifically on the literatures on rape myths, victim blaming, and attributions, outlining
empirical work that provides support for the theoretical claims of himpathy.
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In doing so,
we are drawing attention to the pervasiveness of himpathy and the negative societal and
organizational implications of himpathy. Societally, himpathy upholds gendered norms
and inhibits social progress toward a more equitable society. Male perpetrators continue to
receive disproportionately lenient consequences—in terms of social sanctions, media
portrayals, and formal punishments. In this way, men benefit from their privileged
positions while marginalized groups observe another instance of structural inequity, and
victims/survivors may become more reluctant to report after observing how their credibility
could be questioned and undermined. Organizationally, himpathy allows a culture of
impunity to persist, promoting institutional betrayal (Bedera 2023), failing to disrupt power
and violence in institutions and workplaces. Taken together, these societal and
organizational effects illustrate how himpathy is a social problem, composed of several
processes. These processes shift blame and alleviate responsibility for the perpetrator and
paint a problematic picture of what happens when victims/survivors report.
Furthermore, the prevalence and impact of sexual assault makes himpathy a topic
worthy of further investigation. Indeed, one in four women experiences attempted or
completed rape in her lifetime, and an even higher percentage—nearly 44% of women—
experience sexual violence in their lives (Smith et al. 2018). These figures highlight that
sexual violence is a widespread problem, and as such, it is important to understand that
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https://scholar.valpo.edu/mssj/vol26/iss1/7
DOI: 10.22543/2766-0796.1115